Ahad, Februari 10, 2008

Wanita & warna

UNGU
Wanita yang suka warna ungu adalah:
Seorang murah hati,
Merdeka hatinya dan tidak mahu diperintah.
Penuh inisiatif,
Pandai tetapi tidak emosi,
Dingin dan kehendaknya meluap-luap,
Jarang berjaya.

HITAM
Wanita yang suka warna hitam adalah:
Seorang yang suka bermurung,
Prihatin,
Kuat menghadapi petaka apa sahaja,
Tidak mudah terpengaruh,
Setia pada suami,
Hatinya baik dan cepat tersinggung.

BIRU MUDA
Wanita yang suka warna biru muda adalah:
Seorang yang suka merendahkan diri,
Suka mengalah,
Suka berkorban peranan,
Cerdas,
Pandai dan berotak berlian.

KELABU
Wanita yang suka warna kelabu adalah:
Seorang yang suka sekali mengelamun,
Romantis,
Sabar,
Tenang tetapi hatinya suka mengembara,
Suka mengada-ngada dan gossip.

MERAH
Wanita yang suka warna merah adalah:
Seorang yang berwatak berani,
Emosional dan tegas,
Tamak serta serakah,
Tahan melarat dan suka hidup bersenang-senang.

BIRU
Wanita yang suka warna biru adalah:
Seorang yang setia pada suami,
Senang pegang wang,
Kuat kemahuan,
Berterus terang dan jujur,
Cepat memberi maaf dan tegas.

KUNING
Wanita yang suka warna kuning adalah:
Seorang yang amat menyukai ilmu,
Gemar membaca,
Tekun dan cerdas,
Tabah menghadapi cabaran.

PUTIH
Wanita yang suka warna putih adalah:
Seorang yang mempunyai perangai yang suci bersih,
Fikirannya tidak banyak prasangka,
Berkata benar, jujur dan rendah hati,
Ramah dan bersopan-santun,
Kuat menerima ilmu,
Damai dan berubah alam fikirannya,
Suka menolong dan hidup dalam bertawakal.

COKLAT
Wanita yang suka warna coklat adalah:
Seorang yang mempunyai sifat keibuan,
Suka merendah diri,
Sopan dan halus budi,
Hatinya sentiasa was-was kerana takut salah.

HIJAU
Wanita yang suka warna hijau adalah:
Seorang yang subur dan damai,
Cintakan kebahagian,
Tidak suka perang,
Patuh pada agama,
Teguh pendirian hingga kelihatan agak kolot.

Jumaat, Februari 08, 2008

Writing A Cover Letter

A complete job application consists of a cover letter and a resume. The cover letter is meant to highlight your individuality or personality, and to make you stand out from among hundreds of other applicants.

When there are more job seekers around than job vacancies, human resource personnel tend to be more selective when short listing candidates for interview. Hence, you should use the cover letter as a tool to win the heart of a prospective employer. Market yourself to create a positive first impression in the cover letter, so that the person will read your resume, shortlist you for an interview, and offer you a job. A poorly written cover letter is likely to get instant rejection from the employer given the current job market.

As there is no standard format for cover letter, you are encouraged to write a particular cover letter, one at a time, to apply for the position of your interest. Cover letter should not be generic, i.e. you should not use the same cover letter for all the companies you wish to approach. This is because details like where and when you learnt about the vacancy, why you are interested to apply, what you have to offer to the company etc. are different for each of these companies.

Generally, a well written cover letter should provide answers to what the employers want to know:

Are you the kind of person they are looking for?
Do you have the relevant education, work experience and skills?
Can you handle the work demands, based on the job description?
Have you shown a commitment to this particular field of interest?
How well can you communicate with others?
Are you a team player?
Have you any leadership qualities?
Guidelines for writing a cover letter:
Organise your thoughts carefully
Express yourself clearly and reasonably
Use strong action words to describe your achievements
Use active rather than passive voice
Avoid jargon
Avoid long sentences
Avoid bad grammar and spelling mistakes
Limit the length to one page only
Proof read before you send via e-mail
Layout of a cover letter
The opening
Include your name and address, the date, employer's designation and address, salutation and subject.

Introduction
Nominate the job for which you are applying for.
Indicate the source and date of the job information.
Mention briefly your qualifications
Indicate your interest, career objective or goal.

Sales pitch
Highlight the extent to which you match the requirements of the job.
State your relevant experience gained from industrial attachments, projects, vacation or part-time jobs.
Give a brief summary of your educational achievements, experience, qualities, capabilities and skills.
Outline any further points in your favour related to the job and mention the attached resume.
Mention your interest in the organisation and your reason for applying for that particular position.

Request for further action
Write that you look forward to a call or letter.
State your availability for interview.
Thank the person for his or her time and consideration.

The complimentary close
Remember to sign personally and include your name. State your enclosures such as your attached resume, academic results or references.
Sample Cover Letter 1
Ngeow Yeok Meng
12-A, Jalan Kajang Mewah 10
Taman Kajang Mewah
Kajang 43000
Selangor

5 December 1998

The Human Resource Manager
JobStreet Sdn Bhd
Suite 4.3, Wisma Maran
338, Jalan Tuanku Abdul Rahman
50100 Kuala Lumpur

Dear Sir/Madam,

APPLICATION FOR THE POST OF CHIEF EDITOR

I refer to your advertisement placed in JobStreet's homepage dated 2 December 1998 for the above position. Realising that Internet is no longer an alternative but a necessity in the next millenium, I am keen to enhance my career in the content development of web site of your company.

Allow me to introduce myself briefly. I gained basic knowledge of journalistic reporting, feature writing and editing skills from my major in Media Studies from the University of Malaya. My present job as a senior editor in a news agency since 1994 provides me with work experience and on-the-job training in the above areas.

In 1997, I had the opportunity to write for Alta Vista, an Internet content provider for the Asia Pacific region. The extensive knowledge I gained from my research work on employment trend and labour market information has enlightened me in many ways. I believe I can share my expertise with JobStreet in terms of recruitment practices and human resource management if given the opportunity.

I'm also well-versed in HTML and Pagemaker 6.0 as I have been actively involved in maintaining the web site of the news agency I serve. I'm able to meet deadline promptly as a result of many years of working at a fast pace in this agency.

The attached resume of mine will provide you more information about my work experience. I'll be glad to attend an interview to furnish you with more details. I can be reached via e-mail ngeow@mol.com.my.

Thank you for your time and consideration.


Yours faithfully,

-----------------------------
(Ngeow Yeok Meng)

Enclosed: Resume, Academic Results, References.


Sample Cover Letter 2

Rosli Abdul Hamid
13, Jalan 17/21
Sri Petaling
57000 Kuala Lumpur


5 December 1998

Mr. Geh Thuan Hooi
Group Human Resource Manager
AE Technologies
7, Jalan 7, Cheras Jaya
Jalan Balakong
43200 Selangor

Dear Mr. Geh,

RE: APPLICATION FOR MANAGEMENT TRAINEE POSITION

I wish to apply for the position of management trainee as advertised in JobStreet homepage on the 1st December 1998.

I'm currently enrolled in the final year of a business administration course at the Universiti Utara Malaysia, and will graduate in April 1999.

Your company's unique involvement and position in the manufacturing of precision metal stampings and tooling has prompted me to apply for the management trainee position in your organisation. I am very interested in pursuing a career in the area of business administration. My academic transcript, which I have enclosed, shows that I have completed a wide range of subjects that provide me with a firm base of knowledge and skills relevant to the requirements of the management trainee position.

I notice that the position you advertised requires two years of work experience. Although I have not any work experience pertaining to the manufacturing industry, I have gone through a five-month industrial training during my final year of study where I was given tasks equivalent to a management executive. I have performed well during the training which had helped me expose to various managerial skills and practical knowledge.

My attached resume demonstrates my capacity to be a leader who is able to work in a team environment, set and achieve long and short term goals, think analytically and solve problems. I believe my knowledge and technical know-how in the field of management will help me contribute a great deal to your company. Above all, I possess the interest and determination to perform well in the graduate position you are offering.

I look forward to meeting with you to discuss the position further. I can be contacted on 012-2116888 between the hours of 9 a.m. to 9 p.m., and the following e-mail address: ahrosli@hotmail.com.

Thank you for your consideration.

Yours sincerely,


-----------------------------
(Rosli Abdul Hamid)

Rabu, Februari 06, 2008

Know Which Resume Type Suits You Best

Find out which of these resume styles suits most your particular job-seeker profile.

Don’t take your resume for granted! Any job-hunter worth his salt knows a good resume is the key to a job interview and, ultimately, to employed status. Aside from being a summary of abilities, experience and education, a resume should reveal your unique selling point to make a potential employer want to get to know you better.

The secret of an irresistible resume -- it is suited to a specific job offer and addresses the position’s requirements. A tailored resume carries more impact than a one-size-fits-all.

If your resume is in need of a makeover, the first step to take is to organize information under specific headings such as education, work experience, honors, skills and activities. When you have it all on paper, decide on the proper resume format to play up outstanding qualities that make a perfect fit for the job opening. Take a look at the different kinds of resumes below and choose the one that suits your particular job-hunter profile:


This format is the most conventional and puts emphasis on an itemized employment history. A job seeker’s career milestones are presented in reverse chronological order, starting with the current or last position held. Each position should contain a description of responsibilities and a few bullet points of accomplishments.

This resume type is best for candidates with solid experience and progressive job history in a field or industry. It lends itself well to those with accumulated work experience relevant to the job offered and who want to continue along a similar career path.

Below is the suggested format, but be sure to customize it according to the job’s requirements:

Objective
Summary
Employment History
Education
Professional affiliations

Community Affiliations

Resume authorities agree that most employers prefer this resume style because it is based on facts and is easily digestible. It clearly demonstrates at a glance your career movements and progress over the years.


The functional resume is one that organizes work history into sections that highlight areas of skill and accomplishment. This resume variety allows candidates to give prominence to the set of skills and experiences they deem most relevant to the position. It may be a good choice for job hoppers, career changers and fresh graduates.

Job hoppers can use it to help make sense of seemingly disconnected experiences and show correlation between skills and accomplishments not made obvious in a traditional chronological format.

On the other hand, career shifters and recent graduates can utilize this resume type to display transferable skills and related achievements to convince employers of their suitability for the post.

This resume type often takes this format:

Objective
Summary
Skill Areas
Employment History
Education
Professional Affiliations

Community Affiliations

Be warned, however, that a functional resume could raise concerns that it hides information gaps and covers up spotty employment records. Employers might also encounter difficulties matching skills and accomplishments with actual job titles, dates and responsibilities. To avoid this, include the company name in the bulleted description of your accomplishments. Moreover, don’t omit at least a brief chronological listing of your work experience in your functional resume.


As the term implies, the combination resume tries to merge the best features of both chronological and functional types -- incorporating both a chronological work history and a skills and achievements section.

In this format, skills and accomplishments get top billing followed by employment history.

However, experts caution that the combination resume may not sit well with some employers, who may find these longer resumes particularly repetitious and confusing. This format can be a good tool, however, for someone who possesses strong editing skills.

Curriculum vitae

The curriculum vitae is sometimes used interchangeably with resume. But by formal definition, curriculum vitae refers to a detailed, lengthy and structured outline of educational background, publications, projects, awards and work history. It could run up to 20 pages and is usually suitable for educators and scientists boasting extensive academic and professional credentials and seeking positions in education or research.

Here is the recommended format for the curriculum vitae:

Education
Publications
Projects
Awards
Employment History

Electronic resume

Simply put, the electronic resume is one that can be sent by e-mail or on the Internet, and is specially formatted for scanning and searching by optical scanning systems. This format is the one frequently used when sending resumes through electronic resume banks and job sites like JobStreet.com.

The electronic resume can come in different file formats, but experts recommend the use of ASCII (or American Standard Code for Information Interchange) file formats as they are universally recognized by PC, Macintosh, UNIX workstations and mainframe terminals. The three most common ASCII (pronounced ASK-ee) file formats are plain text, rich text and hypertext.

Each format has its own advantages and disadvantages. Plain text is the most popularly used format for resume transfers across computer systems and is identified by the .txt file extension. Its main drawback is, of course, its no-frills, plain-look format, which can be remedied with the use of asterisks and other special characters to achieve a bulleted effect.

Rich text, identified by the .rtf file extension, provides more formatting options and is gaining grounds for its compatibility across word processors. Rich text is very convenient to use for existing resumes that are in word document or are sent as an email attachment. However, some destination computers may have email browsers that do not recognize this file format. If you are unsure about the read capability of a recipient’s e-mail system, you would do better applying plain text formatting.

Hypertext, also known as a web page, is identified through the file extension .htm or .html. This file format requires a web browser (like Internet Explorer or Netscape Navigator) to view your resume. A major setback to hypertext resume is that it relies on self-promotion rather than on the support of a large recruitment site.

Selasa, Februari 05, 2008

Bagaimana Menjadi Pasangan Yang Lebih Baik

Bila anda pernah mengalami putusnya hubungan cinta, dan memikirkan serta menanyakan apa sebenarnya yang telah terjadi , biasanya lebih mudah untuk mengenali kesalahan pasangan anda, tetapi akan lebih sulit untuk menentukan apakah anda sendiri yang berbuat salah atas putusnya hubungan tersebut. Semua orang umumnya akan berbuat yang terbaik atas apa yang dilakukannya. Menjadi pasangan yang baik juga merupakan suatu keharusan. Dibawah ini terdapat beberapa tip untuk menjadi pasangan yang lebih baik....

-Beriman-
Untuk menjadi pasangan yang lebih baik, kunci pertama adalah menguatkan iman anda sendiri. Dengan adanya pasangan yang beriman, maka pasti hubungan cinta antara kedua pasangan akan mencapai titik yang maksimum.

-Jangan 'minder' dan selalu mengenang masa lalu-
Janganlah bersikap minder terhadap pasangan anda. Bila anda pernah membuat suatu kesalahan dimasa lalu , jangan selalu dikenang atau diingat. Berfikirlah positif. Bila anda minder, sama saja anda mengatakan bahawa anda tidak sepadan untuk pasangan anda. Bila anda tidak percaya diri, bahwa anda adalah pasangan yang sepadan untuk dia, maka anda akan benar2 menjadi pasangan yang tidak sepadan.

-Romantis-
Ketika suatu hubungan cinta mulai mengalami keretakan, tanda pertama yang terlihat adalah mulai berpudarnya romantisme antara pasangan. Umumnya pasangan yang akan retak melupakan bagaimana senangnya ketika pertama kali mereka menjalin hungan tersebut. Suatu hubungan cinta adalah sesuatu yang harus terus menerus dibina dan bersikap romantis dalam membina hubungan tersebut adalah mutlak.

-Jangan membuat sesuatu hanya kerana ingin membahagiakan pasangan anda-
Berapa kalikah anda pernah mengerjakan sesuatu untuk pasangan anda yang sebenarnya tidak ingin anda lakukan, tapi tetap anda lakukan kerana ingin membuat pasangan anda bahagia.. Bagaimana perasaan anda ketika mengerjakan hal tersebut? Setiap kali anda membuat kompromi atas sikap anda tersebut, anda memperlebar jurang hubungan cinta anda. Sebaiknya anda secara jujur mengatakan pada pasangan anda bahawa anda kurang senang mengerjakan hal tersebut, dan mencari alternatif lain untuk mengatasinya bersama.

-Jangan paksa pasangan anda untuk melakukan hal-hal yang dia kurang senangi-
Ini adalah kebalikan dari tip diatas. Kalau anda tahu pasangan anda kurang senang melakukan sesuatu hal, mengapa dipaksakan.....??

-Jangan merendahkan pasangan anda-
Tidak ada manusia yang sempurna didunia ini. Masing2 mempunyai daya fikir, kerja dan daya tahan tersendiri. Bila anda selalu merendahkan pasangan anda dengan menyalahkan apa saja yang dia salah lakukan, bagaimana anda akan berharap dia akan berbuat benar?

-Jangan memberi janji yang anda tidak bisa penuhi-
Kepercayaan adalah hal penting pada suatu hubungan cinta. Kepercayaan harus dibina dan dikembangkan. Bila anda tidak memenuhi janji anda pada pasangan anda, bagaimana pasangan anda akan percaya pada anda pada masa yang akan datang?

-Usahakan untuk selalu berada disisinya-
Pasangan anda merupakan teman anda untuk seumur hidup....Usahakan untuk berada disisinya baik dalam suka maupun duka....

-Komunikasi-
Dunia berubah dari hari ke hari. Bila anda tidak terus menerus berkomunikasi dengan pasangan anda, anda akan terkejut apabila pada suatu hari anda baru menyadari bahwa jurang perbezaan antara anda berdua telah semakin lebar.

-Jangan berlaku kasar dan semena-mena terhadap pasangan anda-
Cukup jelas... Hormati pasangan anda. Hormatilah pasangan anda sebagaimana anda menghormati manusia lainnya. Jangan sampai anda lebih menghormati teman anda daripada menghormati pasangan anda.

-Jujurlah selalu-
Biasanya suatu hubungan cinta tidak akan berlangsung lama apabila dibangun dan didasari atas kebohongan. Walaupun pasangan anda tidak pernah mengetahui kebohongan yang tersimpan, tetapi fakta bahwa anda mengetahui kebohongan itu, akan mempengaruhi perasaan anda maupun pasangan anda. Dengan itu, hubungan cinta tak akan mencapai.

Isnin, Februari 04, 2008

Tips on Crafting that Online Resume

The difference between the electronic resume and the printed version is who -- or what -- gets to see it first. The job hunter wanting to post online must first understand this difference before he can prepare a resume suited for an electronic medium.

Without question, the Internet has revolutionized all aspects of modern living -- business operations, information gathering, the communication process, even how we pay our bills. Now, the Internet is even reshaping the hiring landscape.

Just as you can now conveniently use the computer to shop or pay online, so can you use it to send your resume to potential employers.

The electronic resume does not differ from the traditional printed version in purpose: Both are powerful selling tools that outline your work skills and experience so an employer can see, at a glance, how you can contribute to the company's growth.

A marked difference

There is, however, a marked difference in who -- or what -- gets to see it first: While the old-fashioned resume is written for quick skimming by the human eye, the Web -- or scannable -- resume is written to be searched by the digital eye. The job hunter wanting to post online must first understand this difference before he can craft a resume suited for an electronic environment.

You may well ask: Is there really a need to prepare an electronic resume? With almost everything now being done via the Net, it would be foolish not to do so.

An electronic resume is vital in today's times because an increasing number of businesses have started using the Internet for hiring purposes. In fact, about 80 percent of Fortune 500 companies reportedly already have a Web hiring presence, and the US-based research firm Internet Business Network estimates there are about 100,000 job-related sites online.

And online recruitment isn't likely to fade away anytime soon either. For hiring managers, it represents convenience, efficiency and 24-hour connection to the job market.

“With automated resume submission, we are sure that we get the maximum number of applicants. We can reach out to as many prospective applicants as possible,” stresses Dona Yap, the personnel head of a computer firm.

With an electronic resume, therefore, you are well poised to take advantage of this boom in Internet hiring and send your e-resume instantaneously to any potential employer in any part of the world.

That is exactly what Singapore-bound freelance writer Vernie Reyes, who has been accepted as editor of a technical magazine there, did. “The Internet is truly amazing. I just filled in my resume details and applied online. To my surprise, they contacted me, and eventually hired me for the job,” she narrates.

Still need convincing? Jobstreet.com, the leading e-recruitment site in the Asia-Pacific region, receives many success testimonials from jobseekers, saying they were able to land a job after registering their resumes with the website.

Making a Web-compatible resume

Okay, you're finally sold to the idea. Your next question: How do I make a Web-compatible resume that will impress the digital recruiter?

Reyes, a veteran at online job application, says there are two ways of submitting your electronic resume: by direct e-mail to a hiring firm or by filling an electronic form and entering it in an online resume bank.

Most companies rely on Internet career sites to help them make jobseeker matches. What's important to remember is that well-established websites usually have automated recruitment-management software that winnows the resumes against predetermined employment standards.

At JobStreet.com, for instance, SiVA does automated searches and segregates resumes based on keywords that indicate the candidate's skill, education, knowledge levels and other specific standards set by the hiring employer. This enables the employer to save a sizable amount of time traditionally spent going through each resume and separating the qualified from the unqualified.

Focus on nouns

Programmer Ruby Alcala says that knowing this, you must remember to focus on nouns, not verbs. “Computers do searches by scanning your resume for keywords and phrases describing skills and work experience needed for the job -- and most of these are nouns,” Alcala says.

But while buzzwords are important don't forget the human aspect of your resume as well. “Buzzwords help a lot in the initial scanning stage, but make sure you balance this with a description of your personality and attitude intended for human eyes,” says recruitment officer Tristan Ocampo.

This is because after the computer has done an initial search and drawn up the shortlist of qualified applicants, an HR officer will be the next to handle your resume. So be sure to include in it as well your competitive human qualities such as dependability, responsibility and initiative.

“If you wish to increase your selection chances, highlight relevant and related accomplishments,” Ocampo says. Avoid potential screen-out elements such as unrelated work experiences or a list of brief jobs giving the impression you're a job hopper.

Save as plain text

On the file format, job seekers are enjoined to send their Web resumes in plain ASCII (American Standard Code for Information Exchange) text format to ensure all operating systems can read your resumé.

Some job seekers also develop resumes in HTML format so they can exist as a web page, and rather than submit an online resume, the applicant can just direct the employer to its URL address.

When you are asked to submit by e-mail, always paste your resume into the body of an e-mail message. Attachments are not recommended, not only because the recipient's operating system may not be able to read it, but also because most employers are wary of them for fear of contracting viruses.

Protecting your privacy

Now you know what it takes to tailor-fit a resume for the electronic medium. But one last thing before you hit that send button: Be warned that once released on the Web, your resume is fair game for browsing by anyone. So if you feel the need to protect your privacy, career counselor Pinky Madrigal suggests indicating only your e-mail address, withholding your personal address and phone number.

“Remember that once posted, your resume becomes a public document whose readership is beyond your control,” Madrigal says.

Or, you can choose a career resource website that asks your permission first before your resume is released for viewing. JobStreet.com, for instance, has the Truste seal which guarantees privacy and confidentiality for registered resumes. In essence, the jobseeker has the final say on who to send the resume to or who shall have access to its contents.

With that in mind, start posting those online resumes!

Aurat dalam Islam

AURAT yang dimaksudkan dalam syariat Islam adalah bahagian tubuh yang
tidak patut diperlihatkan kepada orang lain. Seseorang wanita harus
menutupinya pada waktu solat dan pada saat berhadapan dengan orang lain.

Hadis riwayat Ibnu Hakim bermaksud: Saya bertanya kepada Rasulullah,
manakah dari aurat kami yang boleh diperlihatkan dan mana yang tidak?
Maka jawab
Nabi: "Peliharalah auratmu, kecuali terhadap isterimu atau hamba
sahayamu."

Saya bertanya pula; "Kalau orang itu berkumpul satu sama lain?" Jawab
baginda; "Kalau boleh tak seorangpun melihat auratmu, maka jangan sampai ia melihatnya."

Tanya saya pula, "Kalau seorang dari kami dalam keadaan bersendirian?"
Maka baginda menjawab, "Maka terhadap Allah s.w.t sepatutnya orang lebih berasa malu daripada terhadap sesama insan."

Semua ulama fikah berpendapat menutup aurat bagi wanita yang sudah akil baligh adalah satu kewajipan, apabila tidak dilaksanakan akan mendapat
dosa. Perbezaan muncul ketika menetapkan batasan aurat wanita harus ditutup ketika solat dengan orang lain.

Dalam hal ini ada tiga pendapat:

- Semua anggota tubuh wanita adalah aurat, mulai dari hujung rambut
sampailah hujung kaki; menurut mazhab Ahmad dan pendapat Ibnu Taimiyah.

- Semua tubuh wanita kecuali wajah, tapak tangan dan telapak kaki, menurut mazhab Abu Hanifah.

- Semua tubuh wanita kecuali wajah dan telapak tangan sahaja; menurut mazhab Maliki dan Syafie.

Timbulnya perbezaan ini kerana ulama berbeza fahaman dalam mentafsirkan firman Allah dalam surah an-Nur ayat 31 yang bermaksud: "Dan janganlah mereka menampakkan perhiasannya (zinah) selain dari yang nyata mesti terbuka."

Dalam tafsir ar-Razi yang diambil Yusuf Qordhawi dijelaskan bahawa pendapat yang dianggap lebih kuat dalam memahami seperti zinah adalah anggota tubuh. Wanita tidak boleh menampakkan anggota tubuhnya selain daripada biasa terbuka iaitu wajah dan telapak tangan.

Dibolehkannya membuka kedua anggota seperti kata ar-Razi untuk kepentingan bekerja, mengambil dan memberi. Oleh kerana itu wanita diberi ruksoh untuk membukanya.

Aurat anak perempuan yang belum akil baligh namun sudah membangkitkan syahwat lelaki yang sihat sama seperti aurat wanita dewasa. Jika masih terlalu kecil dan belum membangkitkan syahwat tetap diharamkan melihat kemaluannya selain terhadap orang tua dan pengasuhnya.

Untuk kepentingan pendidikan, lebih baik seorang ibu memperkenalkan anak perempuannya sejak belum baligh mengenai batas aurat yang mesti ditutup, misalnya di luar rumah, paha dan betisnya tertutup; atau menggalakkannya memakai tudung ketika keluar rumah.

Ahad, Februari 03, 2008

10 Tanda Kamu Sudah Jatuh Cinta

1. Mengharapkan agar kamu selalu jumpa si dia.

2. Sentiasa terbayang wajah si dia.

3. Mengharapkan si dia muncul di mimpi-mimpi kamu.

4. Bila berhadapan dengan si dia, jiwa bergetar dan dada berdebar-debar.

5. Kamu sukar untuk berbual dengan dia walaupun banyak peluang.

6. Bila terdengar teman-teman menyebut nama si dia, kamu akan tersenyum lebar.

7. Kamu akan mencari baju yang sama dengan baju yang sering si dia pakai.

8. Kamu sedaya mungkin menyiasat tentang latar belakang si dia.

9. Tiba-tiba kamu menjadi seorang yang jiwang.

10. Makan tak kenyang, mandi tak basah, tidur tak lena.

Sabtu, Februari 02, 2008

Fikir-fikirkan...

1.kita bukannya pandai untuk cakap orang lain bodoh

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13 Tips to Writing the Right Resume

Coming up with a resume that makes jaded HR people sit up and take notice isn't as difficult as it sounds. The trick is to make sure it's worthwhile reading anytime.

How to come up with a resume that works--now there's a dilemma shared by fresh graduates and working stiffs alike. What exactly do you put in and leave out to convince the HR manager that you will be a wise addition to their company ranks? It's a tough set of decisions to make, akin to those you make when going on a blind date: You worry yourself sick over what to wear, what perfume to use, what to say to make the other person like you.

Writing resumes is, after all, fundamentally a marketing act. It's a way to advertise yourself and stand out in the marketplace crowd of similarly competent, qualified workers.

Forget about being modest. As career specialist J. Michael Farr, writing in the online magazine VidBook.com, says, “Your resume is no place to be humble.”

How then do you design yours so that it comes off not as a pompous recitation of accomplishments the way a politician may do his, but as a compelling summary of your most attractive qualities?

Remember what your resume is not for: It's not meant to get you a job. Not yet, anyway. Its mission is to get you a job interview--which would hopefully lead to a job offer. But think of that as a long-term goal. First, your resume should be able to get your foot in the door by attracting the reader's attention enough to wangle an invitation for that first big look-see.

HR practitioners thumb through countless resumes in the course of their work. How do you make yours so fetching it warrants a face-to-face encounter?

Here's a 13–step guide to constructing a professional resume that gets your foot in that all-important door.

Gather your materials. Begin by putting everything down on paper--contact details, work history and accomplishments, academic background, seminars attended, honors received, skills and proficiencies, personal details, etc. Don't worry about organizing them at this point; just make sure you don't leave out anything major, substantial, or relevant.

Pay particular attention to dates and places--say, periods of employment--as mistakes in these areas may leave an impression of sloppiness, or worse, fudging on your part.

Start with your name and contact details. Your contact information should come right at the top of the resume after your name for easy and convenient reference by the reader. Include all possible contact details: postal address, landline and mobile phone numbers, fax numbers, and e-mail address. The last one is particularly important, because in these tech-savvy times, an email address shows that you are, at the very least, computer literate.

State a job objective. A well-developed job objective statement “can be a useful way of demonstrating yourself to be a focused individual,” says VirtualResume.com, an online job placement company. If you're responding to an advertisement, your job objective can be as simple as the position title (e.g., “Finance Manager”).

But if you're aiming to keep your options open for other positions within a broad range of expertise, you can write a more general description of the work and corporate environment you want to focus on (e.g., “To apply my extensive experience in finance and administration to senior management positions in a highly motivated, forward-looking multicultural company”).

Beware of generic objectives such as “employment in a position commensurate to my qualifications” or “to secure a regular position.”

Write a brief summary of qualifications. Cynthia Buiza, an HR and corporate communications officer at a Thailand-based NGO, says she appreciates resumes that provide upfront a concise summary of the applicant's qualifications.

“I get the impression that the applicant knows his strengths very well, but more importantly, that he can help me evaluate his credentials in a paragraph or so.” Such small gestures of consideration, she says, go a long way toward distinguishing a thoughtful resume from the run-of-the-mill.

Your summary of qualifications should include:
number of years of professional experience
areas of expertise and career highlights (e.g., “at 26, youngest officer promoted to manager in bank history”)
unique skills and competencies (e.g., “part-time financials instructor at the SAP Academy”)
other information underlining your particular qualifications for the job
The summary's task is to make your credentials a cut above the rest. But make it brief; two or three sentences should do.

Lead with your professional experience. Unless you are a new graduate, you should begin the body of your resume with an outline of your employment history, starting with your most recent work. List down all the jobs you've had, the company names, dates of employment, titles and responsibilities.

“Don't censor this list; include everything,” advises VidBook.com. A fairly straightforward rundown of your professional experience emphasizes a strong and consistent work history.

A choppy one, on the other hand, where you jump from one company to another within fairly short periods, or have unaccounted pockets of unemployment, will inevitably lead to questions about your work ethic, your sense of stability, company loyalty, etc. That's why it's best not to leave a gap. Account for everything, even for time spent outside of professional work (e.g., “1990-1993—Full-time parent,” or “1998-1999--Study and travel”).

Highlight concrete achievements. When you describe your professional experience, don't just enumerate your job responsibilities. A comprehensive job description will only pad up your resume; save it for the interview. Instead, emphasize any major accomplishments you had chalked up in the job. Use numbers, figures, percentages if possible.

At the September 1994 Professional Association of Resume Writers' Annual Convention in St. Louis, Missouri, USA (yes, there is such a thing), invited HR panelists were one in saying they searched for certain key words and phrases that provided a barometer of a potential candidate's qualifications. These words were active verbs that described the applicant as a results-oriented, dynamic individual, such as “accomplish, achieve, analyze, delegate, establish.”

In other words, describe your job in the active, not the passive, voice. Why say, for instance, “Directly responsible for coordinating community programs” when you can say “Managed community programs with P12-million annual budget, 4 employees, and 3 office branches; streamlined program operations, increasing revenues by 20% over a period of 3 months.”

Emphasize your educational preparedness. If you are a new graduate with no professional experience, lead with your academic background, honors, and extra-curricular activities. Don't believe the fillip that grades don't matter in the real world; in the beginning at least, they do.

As Fred Damian, HR partner of Ernst & Young-Manila, explains, potential employers understandably give hiring priority to young people who have more or less proven themselves in academic tasks and school-related activities. Positions of responsibility in extra-curricular and community organizations are also reliable indicators of leadership and social interaction skills, he says. Thus, make sure they're all in your resume.

Leave off the negative points. If you made it to the dean's list in the first semester of your first year and never made it again, it might be prudent not to include the details anymore. That is, unless you're prepared to admit during the interview that after a glowing start, you sputtered to a lame finish. Your educational background should always be positive and purposeful, to encourage the thinking that you are well prepared for the rigors of the corporate world.

Include special skills and competencies. This is important, particularly in a highly competitive knowledge-based industry such as IT. In your resume, include the titles, dates, venues, and agenda of all your training activities and further education, whether formal or informal. Begin with the most relevant seminars. Be specific: don't just say “assorted computer training,” when you can say “training in Visual Basic, SAP,” etc. If you are fluent in more than one language, mention that fact, too.

Either include references--or don't mention them. There are two schools of thought on this: One says it's necessary to include references. The other says this only lengthens the resume, and should therefore be available in another sheet of paper only upon request.

Damian, however, advises against using the standard “References available upon request” line. “It's either you mention references, or none at all,” he says. “What's the point of putting in a header for 'References' only to say 'Available upon request?'” But if you do include references, include as well their complete contact details—especially telephone numbers and email addresses, and also the best time to get in touch with them.

Use personal details sparingly. In the US where job-discrimination laws are wide ranging and explicit, “a potential employer has no legal right to request information about age, sex, race, religion, marital status, health, physical appearance, or personal habits,” explains The Writing Center at Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute.

Such statutes have yet to find root locally, but it is best to leave out as much extraneous (read: personal) information as possible from your resume, to free up limited space. These include names and occupations of parents, hobbies and interests, birthplace, etc. Reserve them for the interview proper.

Be concise. Resumes are often read in 30 seconds or less so be brief, straightforward and to the point. Use bullet points to underscore important information. Employ paragraph breaks, lines, and numbers. A standard resume should be no more than two pages—three at most if you have extensive professional experience. Beyond that, your resume needs serious editing.

Proofread! There should be no typographical or spelling errors in your resume. When using numbers, re-check decimal places or the number of zeros. Punctuation and date formats should be consistent. For example, if you write “2 February 2000” in one section, don't write “March 5, 2000” in another.

Make it an easy read. Your resume should also be visually appealing; a carelessly printed, sloppily designed resume will reflect disastrously on you. Thus, make it easy on the eye with lots of white spaces, a font no smaller than 10 in size, and at most two conservative typestyles (such as Times New Roman or Garamond). Underlined and bold text should be used sparingly--only to highlight significant information or to indicate section breaks.

Another crucial point: Use a laser printer. With cheap laser printing services available even in neighborhood computer shops nowadays, there is no excuse for jet ink-printed resumes, which easily smudge or run off. Make sure that the printing is even, with no stray marks, splotches or blurred letters.

Finally, use only high-quality bond paper--either white or off-white. Don't experiment with flashy colors such as blue or green, or with fancy graphics and visuals; stick to the simple and straightforward.

One more suggestion: Once written up, show your resume to friends or colleagues. Listen to their comments and suggestions, especially on how easy or difficult it is to find important information at a glance. Then consider all that when rewriting the final draft of your masterpiece.

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